It’s not just about having next to someone who will make us company or who can spend leisure time,
a relationship involves much more than that and finally, the desire of every couple is living together in a healthy union grow and strengthen over time.
Learn to communicate
Some people confuse communicating with talking too much, it’s not about quantity but about quality. A good communication requires that both strive to express their thoughts and feelings appropriately, by listening to others with genuine interest. A Healthy Relationship is one who also gets to establish a good friendship.
The key is to trust
The jealousy excessive and distrust are two great enemies of a healthy relationship. Trust is earned and if we are together with someone who does not deserve it, the best thing is to end the relationship before undermining our security and self-esteem, which will lead us to never manage to maintain a balanced union.
The importance of tolerance and patience
There is nothing more exhausting for a healthy relationship than the constant desire of one party to make the other change. Changes in a relationship occur only when you want to do it genuinely and although it is not easy to tolerate the defects of our partner is necessary to do so patiently. It is very important to accept the other as he is and breathe deeply before creating a storm in a glass of water with small problems that do not deserve it.
Getting placed in the place of our partner and understand their decisions and thoughts is vital to lead a healthy relationship. If instead, we decide to go the way of negative criticism, offenses and psychological attacks on the self-esteem of the other, far from having a beautiful union we will be incubating a conflictive relationship that will not leave anything good.
In any kind of personal relationship, respect is basic and when it comes to our partner much more. It should create a bond in which even in the moments of more anger we dare to disrespect the other, this is mutual and is one of the bases of a healthy relationship. Loving the other also means respecting him.
Have fun together and separated
In a healthy relationship, both members get a space to also lead a social life in which they can have fun with their environment together as a couple and also separated and it is necessary that each have a personal space without the other to maintain individuality. If there are respect and trust it will not be a problem to have fun together or separated from time to time.
Have time for yourself, take care!
It is always fundamental, to be well with others, to be well with oneself. When we feel good, we will be fine with others. It is very good to have a little bit of time each day to dedicate ourselves to doing something that we like and fill personally, but only for us. Reading, drawing, doing sports, going for a walk … This will make us be in a good mood and happy, which will be positively noticed in the couple’s relationship
In the same way that it is positive to dedicate ourselves a personal time every day, it is also good to dedicate it to being in a couple, sharing conversation and common hobbies. The constant bond with your partner is essential, show your support, listen to a healthy relationship, tell your stuff. In short, share with your partner. In this way, ties are reinforced every day.